Don't Allow Your Life To Be Controlled By These 5 Things

Have you ever felt stuck in your life? Like your actions and thoughts are controlled by the circumstances around you. Many people spend their whole life in scenarios of their past. They live the regret what happened to them in the past instead of living in the moment.

These thoughts ruin the present and future of a person. Can you get over this situation and live a GREAT everyday life? To discover the answer to this question, keep reading this article til the end.

If you want to live an amazing, plentiful life, don't allow yourself to be controlled by these five things!

Number 1 - Your PAST.

Number 2 - Other people's opinions and judgments

Number 3 - LIMITED BELIEFS you project on yourself.

Number 4 - Relationships

Number 5 - MONEY.

Overthinking these can be toxic for your life. These things can leave a destructive impact on your mental health.

Your past:

Let your past go! Don't let your past destroy your present and future. Let the toxicity and pain of your past behind. Those regrets can do nothing but destroy the joy of the present moment and your mental health. Let the brightness of your future come to erase all the darkness of the past.

Letting your past go is a conscious decision, just like Holding onto your past. Process whatever bad things happened to you, let yourself heal, and move forward.

Remember, this is your life; there will be ups and lows in this. Just know that this too shall pass. What will happen if you will constantly think and grieve about your past? These thoughts will depress you and bring more pain to your life. Your harsh past is gone, so let the thoughts also be in the past.

As ~Echcart Tolle said:

"Sometimes letting things go is an act of far greater power than defeating and hanging on."

It's not unusual to hear that you should cut yourself off from the situation or person who is distressing you. Don't blame yourself and move forward. Set your goals and work on them. That's a win for you.

Suppose you are staying in your hole as a victim; you are letting them win. Don't let that happen! Stay consistent and prove yourself by your work and achievements.

Be kind to yourself, live in the moment, celebrate small things, and appreciate yourself.

Other people's opinions and judgments:

That's the primary reason people feel controlled. Don't allow others' opinions and judgments to overcome your decisions toward success. If you care a lot about others' thoughts, It's not your fault. We are all trained to believe in the concept of "what OTHER PEOPLE think."

Have you ever done something that you don't like but still do just for others' sake? If yes, then this thing has got you. Just know that you cannot please everyone. It doesn't matter what you do to please others; they'll still find something to criticize you.

If people are judging you, let them! Yup, you heard that right. You cannot control their thoughts about you. But what you can do is appreciate yourself, and focus on what you are doing.

Know what you seek from life. Focus on your thoughts and dreams and work on them accordingly. Don't let these judgments cause a hurdle between your goals. These people will clap for you on your success.

Don't doubt your journey. You are special and unique. So don't let others' opinions and judgments ruin your success and stick with the people who see the charm within you.

LIMITED BELIEFS:

What are self-limiting beliefs? These beliefs are the perceptions and assumptions you made up for yourself or implemented to fit how the world works. Don't let yourself be controlled by your own limited beliefs. These beliefs are holding you back from achievements you can easily do.

These beliefs begin to develop at a very young age, and these beliefs are unconscious limitations. Listening to these negative things can cause a big hurdle in your success journey.

BELIEVE IN YOUR POWER! Yes, you are the one who can do this. Just believe in yourself, and there's nothing you cannot do. If you can dream about this, you can achieve this. Don't keep your belief limited; keep your beliefs unlimited so you can attain unlimited. When you try to keep your beliefs eternal, your potential for success eventually increases. As belief formation starts from childhood and when they are formed, It's pretty resistant to change those beliefs.

Beliefs are a primary factor in how you behave in life. If you believe you are not good enough, you cannot push yourself forward to be more good and be a better version of yourself.

Your life will be changed the day you'll try to change your beliefs. After that, you'll see your hurdles and challenges as blessings. You'd love to dive into a tough competition to prove yourself.

Relationships :

Relationships are the most emotional and touchy scenario in this phase of being controlled. But if all your emotions and feelings are attached to one person, and you feel happy just with them, then, believe me, you are a moment away from the devastation. If that person leaves you, you'll always feel a burden on your heart.

DON'T LET THAT HAPPEN! We all know it's easy to say but hard to do. Don't rely on one person like that. Indeed there's no power greater than love on this planet. Being in love makes you grow, but it can also destroy you. This is not said to avoid relationships. NOT AT ALL! The purpose is to create a proper balance in your relationships.

You need to be strong enough to face all the circumstances in the relationship. There will be ups and lows in your relationship; the other person can also leave you. Feelings are not meant to control you, and you need to manage them. BE HAPPY! With or without being in a relationship, You don't need to rely on others to be happy.

MONEY:

The whole world chases money! There's no doubt about this fact. But is money meant to control you? No, absolutely not. You are the one who earns money, and you should be the one to control it.

You are not alone in having an ambivalent relationship with money. Many people struggle to keep a balance in cash and self-control. You might think that it's meant to say money is wicked, but no, it's not about that. We all know how many dreams can come true through money and all the great things we can do with it.

Money is not the problem; getting controlled by these pennies is the problem. Don't let your decisions be influenced by money. Know that money can buy things, not happiness, so if you choose something just for the number of money, you are wrong. You need to change your mindset about this, and make your decisions with your heart based on what makes you happy and satisfied.

Be practical and realistic but be kind and listen to your heart. Practice Little sweet gestures to please others. Be the best version of yourself. Keep your intentions clear towards others if you will follow these practices with the mind of helping others. Money will eventually come to you. Live the life you look up to, the life you've always dreamt of. Today is the day to challenge yourself to live the life you desire. LIVE your life without thinking about others to the fullest without being controlled by ANYTHING.